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An elegantly dressed couple on a London terrace with St Paul’s Cathedral in the distance

Selective dating in London

Someone to share your London with.

An evening that continues with a walk along the South Bank. A familiar Sunday made different by the person beside you.

Aurelia is for accomplished men and exceptional women seeking mutual attraction, natural generosity and a relationship where both feel valued. What you want from that relationship deserves to be clear from the beginning.

International applications for Founding Membership are welcome. Aurelia is launching first in London, New York and Miami. Member browsing, connections and conversations are not available yet. Verification and checkout are not open.

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The life between occasions

The London you share with someone takes shape in ordinary choices: making time during the week, spending a weekend together, knowing when to leave an evening unplanned.

Think about the closeness you want. Regular companionship, a committed partnership, a relationship with room for independent lives. Attraction matters—and so does wanting a similar place in each other’s day.

What you want. What you bring.

You may value accomplishment and the freedom to be generous. You may bring warmth, intelligence, ambition or a different perspective on life. A complementary relationship gives both people room to be appreciated.

Aurelia’s approach begins with those intentions. Accepted applicants can prepare a private profile expressing the relationship they seek, the qualities they value and what they bring to a partner.

Founding Membership

Applying is complimentary.

Approved female Founding Members
Complimentary Full Membership for life.
Approved male Founding Members
Three complimentary months, beginning only when Full Membership is usable after activation and required verification.

Application and profile approval are required. No payment details are needed for the founding offer, and it does not automatically convert to a paid plan.

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Questions before you apply

Who is eligible?

You must be at least 18, be based in a supported country and meet Aurelia’s eligibility requirements. The United Kingdom is supported. Applications receive personal review; acceptance is not guaranteed.

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When could I meet someone in London?

We’ll email you when member access becomes available. Choosing London expresses your meeting preference; it does not guarantee local members, a connection or an opening date.

What are the membership costs and renewal terms?

Women’s Full Membership is complimentary. After their founding offer, men may choose $180 USD every month, $455 USD every three months, or $1,640 USD every year, including applicable tax. A paid plan renews at the selected interval until cancelled; cancellation stops the next renewal. Prices are in USD for London applicants too.

Full membership terms
How private is my application?

Your application is private. During profile preparation, you can save visibility and contact preferences and explore a preview only you can see. Profile approval does not publish your profile or activate member access. Visibility, contact permission and private-photo access are separate.

Which checks are required?

Full Membership requires an approved profile and primary photo, activation, age confirmation, identity verification and an active complimentary or paid membership. Photo, professional and wealth verification are optional. Photo verification is separate from approval of your profile photos; no check guarantees compatibility or conduct.

Verification and its limits
What happens after I apply?

Confirm your email and complete your private application. A reviewer may accept, decline or defer it, or request more information. Acceptance brings an invitation to prepare your profile for approval. An approved profile remains private while you wait for access.

Can I choose London if I commute or live elsewhere?

Yes, provided you meet residence eligibility requirements. Give your actual home location and select London if meeting here is realistic. You can choose several meeting cities. Think about the journeys and time together you would welcome regularly.

A relationship with room for both of you.

Begin with what matters to you.

Apply for Founding Membership