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What happens when I apply?

You begin with your email address, preferred cities and the way you would like to join Aurelia. After confirming your email, you can continue your application privately.

An Aurelia reviewer may accept, decline or defer an application, or ask for further information. Submitting an application does not guarantee acceptance.

How do application acceptance, profile approval and Full Membership differ?

Application acceptance brings an invitation to create your account, review prefilled answers, add fresh photos and submit your profile for approval.

Profile approval confirms permanent Founding Member recognition. It does not activate member access. Your profile remains private while you wait, and you can update it for further review. We’ll email you when access becomes available.

Private Access requires an approved profile and primary photo, age confirmation and enabled membership access. Browsing is not available yet.

Full Membership additionally requires identity verification and an active complimentary or paid membership. Contact also depends on the recipient’s permissions. Photo, professional and wealth verification are optional; profile photo approval is a separate requirement.

Is women's membership complimentary?

Yes. Women's Full Membership is complimentary, and approved female Founding Members receive it for life. No payment details are required. Application acceptance, profile and primary-photo approval, activation, age confirmation and identity verification are still required before Full Membership can be used.

Is there a fee for men?

Applying is complimentary. The offer for approved male Founding Members is 3 complimentary months of Full Membership. This period does not begin on application acceptance or profile approval: Full Membership must first be usable, with access activated and required verification complete. Time spent preparing a profile or waiting for access does not use these months. No payment details are required and there is no automatic renewal.

Aurelia may offer a one-time complimentary extension where launch availability has been unusually limited. Any extension is discretionary, is not guaranteed and does not renew automatically.

After the complimentary period, men may choose one of the paid plans listed above. Each price is the full charge for its billing interval, in USD including applicable tax. The quarterly option saves $85 compared with three monthly payments; the annual option saves $180 compared with four quarterly payments.

How are charges, renewals and cancellation handled?

Before any charge is authorised, Aurelia will show the price, billing period, what is included, whether the membership renews, how to cancel and any applicable cancellation rights. Submitting an application never authorises a charge.

Founding Membership does not renew automatically after the complimentary period. If a man then selects a paid plan, that Full Membership plan renews at the chosen monthly, quarterly or annual interval until cancelled. Cancellation stops the next renewal while Full Membership continues through the period already paid for. Refunds, including the 14-day cancellation right on a first payment, are set out in the Terms.

Members can change their profile privacy settings and request account deletion. Marketing emails can be unsubscribed from separately without ending a membership or application.

What does membership not guarantee?

Membership does not guarantee access to any particular person, a minimum number of connections, a match or a relationship outcome. Verification and application acceptance are not an endorsement of a member's character, conduct, wealth or compatibility.